Spousal Abuse Group Education

The Domestic Violence Program - Stopping the Violence!

The program is open to anyone 18 years of age or older who has been physically, verbally, or emotionally aggressive toward his or her partner. Download brochure in English or Spanish.

The Domestic Violence Program Can Help Stop Family Violence

  • Educating abusers on becoming accountable for their behavior so they can change it, including addressing their need for control and power in relationships can help stop the violence.
  • Participants come to the Domestic Violence Program usually after being referred by judges or probation officers; some see the harm their behavior is causing and want to stop.
  • But wanting to stop - even promising to stop - isn't enough. Most people need education before they can stop - and Family and Children's provides that.
  • The problem exists in all age groups, all occupations and at all economic levels. Yet, we know that participants can and do respond to a program that meets their needs and concerns.

The Program

  • Participants attend group education once a week for 24 weeks.
  • Professional leaders, trained in the dynamics of domestic violence, conduct each group.
  • All participants are screened for substance abuse and if indicated, are referred for substance abuse treatment at the same location.
  • Counseling services are available to participants who complete the program and still feel the need for further help.
  • Weekly fees are based on a sliding scale.

We ask participants to focus on three basic principles:

  • Using violent behavior is a choice you have made. You can choose not to be violent or abusive.
  • You are the only one responsible for your behavior, therefore you control your actions.
  • Abusive behavior is learned behavior. What is learned can be unlearned. - you can change.

Is the Domestic Violence Program the right place for you? If you answer "yes" to any of these questions, call for help!

  • Are you afraid you may hurt someone you care about?
  • Do you "overreact" to minor events?
  • Do you sometimes apologize for being too "rough" and then do it again?
  • Does your partner feel you are possessive, jealous or trying to control him or her?
  • Have you ever physically hurt or threatened your partner?


 

 

Geryl Pecora, LCSW-R, CASAC, Program Director
Debi Leonardo, LCSW-R, Program Coordinator
180 Broadway, 2nd Floor
Hicksville, NY 11801
(516)935-6858
gpecora@familyandchildrens.org